The 4th of July is a time of celebration and togetherness. Even if your loved one is in prison, you can still find meaningful ways to connect and celebrate this patriotic holiday. Here are some suggestions for fun and serious books, as well as engaging activities you can enjoy together, even from afar.

**Fun Books**

1. The Adventures of Tom Sawyer by Mark Twain

  • This classic novel is filled with adventure, humor, and nostalgia. It’s a light and enjoyable read that can provide an escape and some shared laughs.

2. The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams

  • A witty and humorous sci-fi novel that’s perfect for those who enjoy a good laugh. The quirky characters and absurd situations can provide a fun diversion.

3. Where the Sidewalk Ends by Shel Silverstein

  • Though it’s a collection of poems and illustrations for children, its whimsical nature and clever wordplay make it a delightful read for all ages.

Serious Books

1. The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration in the Age of Colorblindness by Michelle Alexander

  • This powerful book provides a deep look into the systemic issues within the American criminal justice system. It’s a thought-provoking read that can lead to meaningful discussions.

2. Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl

  • A profound and moving memoir that explores finding purpose in the midst of suffering. It’s an inspiring read that can provide comfort and motivation.

3. The Autobiography of Malcolm X by Malcolm X and Alex Haley

  • This compelling autobiography offers insights into the life and thoughts of one of America’s most influential civil rights leaders. It’s an eye-opening read that can spark important conversations about history and justice.

Engaging Activities

1. Book Discussions

  • Choose a book to read simultaneously and discuss it through letters or phone calls. Share your thoughts, favorite passages, and insights. It’s a great way to stay connected and stimulate intellectual conversations.

2. Letter-Writing

  • Writing letters is a timeless way to stay connected. For the 4th of July, you could write about your favorite memories of past celebrations, share your thoughts on what freedom means, or even discuss historical events related to Independence Day.

3. Craft Projects

  • If allowed, send craft supplies or instructions for simple projects. You can create matching patriotic crafts that can be displayed in your respective locations. It’s a creative way to feel closer together.

4. Patriotic Trivia

  • Create a trivia quiz based on American history and 4th of July facts. You can send the questions in a letter or discuss them over a call. It’s a fun way to celebrate the holiday and learn something new together.

5. Recipe Sharing

  • Exchange recipes for classic 4th of July foods like BBQ dishes, pies, or patriotic-themed treats. You can each try making the recipes and share your results and experiences. Even if you can’t enjoy the meal together, you can share the joy of cooking and eating similar foods.

6. Movie or TV Show Watchlist

  • Compile a list of patriotic or uplifting movies and TV shows. Watch the same film or episode and then discuss it during your next call or letter. Some suggestions include “Independence Day,” “Forrest Gump,” or “The West Wing.”

Conclusion

Celebrating the 4th of July with a loved one in prison may require some creativity, but it can still be a meaningful and enjoyable experience. By sharing books, engaging in thoughtful activities, and maintaining strong communication, you can bridge the distance and make the holiday special for both of you. Remember, it’s the connection and effort that count the most.


5 responses to “Celebrating the 4th of July (while Locked Up)”

  1. Chris Avatar

    I’m incarcerated and trying to keep my head up today.

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    1. Chapters Chains Avatar
      Chapters Chains

      I hope that you are able to and know that there are many in the free world who care immensely about those who are incarcerated (and also working for a more equitable and humane “justice” system). I know holidays are difficult for my loved one and I am sending you lots of positive energy.

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      1. Chris Avatar

        I appreciate it more than u may ever know. I wish there were those who we could reach out to. Just to have a person to talk to. I’m truly in hell.

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      2. Chapters Chains Avatar
        Chapters Chains

        Being incarcerated takes so much from a person and you are stronger than you think you are. As much as it is hell right now, you are an extraordinary human being who will do amazing things.

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      3. Chris Avatar

        I sure hope you’re right.

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